How to make happy every day with us

How to make happy every day with us

By admin 0 Comment 2019-02-21

What is happiness?Where is the happiness?Happy or not depends on what?.I do not know how many people are talking about this both familiar and unfamiliar topic, I have to Cougerenao it.But please do not eager to know my views, please take a look at the first day of happiness I experience it!  Morning full House photos, flowers full House Gone.Sparrow called branches, goldfish pool downtown.Up in the morning, wash a dreamless sleepy face, wash sleep a night, enjoying the beauty of a small hospital – woke up, how happy!  As sun, wind and micro, road contention Young green.A leisurely ride to go to work, refining the body was intoxicated heart.The sky was blue kiss the earth, then sky green wheat seedling.Although there is no fragrant flower birds, sky blue to green heart Yi.Rode to work, breathe the fresh air of the field, not only exercise, but also enjoy the beautiful rural scenery – go to work (go), how happy!  Units also the home, as if there wife.Weekend only two days, anxious to return to work.How and Friday, feel another week.Work more happiness, fear nothing off.On the classes, energy and comrades together, happily doing contribute to society – work, how happy!  Sunset sleep read head mask, leisurely ride to go home relaxed times.One thousand flowering Wan floor lights, enjoy the day was the beauty of the night.People are off work, quietly reading the sun sets, darkness fell, leisurely rode home, both the brain and the rest of the town to enjoy the beautiful night view – from work (back), how happy!  Read sunset sky full of stars, solitary hut night lights.Sitting at the table reading static thinking, embracing love at Valentine’s month.The dead of night, no one bothered, pause to read favorite books, thinking about issues of interest to – to study, how happy!  Good good belly spleen stomach often hungry, wolf swallow dry bread fragrant chicken.Dun Dun eat in the hotel, meal and seafood delicacies.He loved sports, and good gastrointestinal function, so although Dun Dun bread and water, but if in eating delicacies – eat, how happy!  Read a three-shift night, tipsy head felt Mongolia.That is down bed snoring, sleep smell cock.Reading for head slightly Mongolian eyes when the fight, that is down bed to sleep, sleep until dawn – sleep, how happy!  Keyboard tapping Miles know, radio waves even knew Acacia.Feudal emperors and more wealth, to have the mobile computer?Idle down, and thousands of miles away to study in the sons and daughters, send a greeting message, or chat on QQ, enjoying the civilization of modern technology – the Internet, how happy!  Happiness is the inner self of a positive psychological feelings (relaxed, pleasant, comfortable, warm.), Not other people’s judgment and evaluation, you feel happy you are happy, you think you’re unfortunate misfortune.People are calling and looking forward to happiness, it seems like it’s hard to find in the far ends of the earth.In fact, it’s in our hands, on our feet, in our eyes, in our hearts – happy or not, depends on our own.If so, then how do we make ourselves happy – happier it?The author’s experience and opinion is: learn to look with optimism [people] who have excellent things there missing, beneficial things and disadvantages.People are so pessimistic view of man: to see themselves, only to see their own shortcomings and low self-esteem; to see someone else, only to see the faults of others and blame people.Look at everyone who gifted cute, look at who lack everyone detestable.Everyone look beautiful gifted people, who lack everyone look ugly.Pessimistic people see things, it is only see the negative side of things, it can not see the positive side.A person, if the advantages of multi-Man, will go to enjoy, if we look at the benefits of things, would love to go.Who is so optimistic look at people and things, more and more optimistic.Only optimistic view of people and things, in order to make yourself happy.Only optimistic people are happy people.The happiest person is the most optimistic person.Happy belongs only to those who know how to discover the joy.See more bitter musicians music, and more difficult to see the blessing by blessing.Do not take things as normal is not normal, a lot of human suffering is not the normal thing as a result of normal.For example, people have difficulties in life, work, study, research practice, after the failure is normal, many people take it as quite normal and depressed.Unfortunately, when you want to ponder the midst of sadness and joy, not only to see the midst of misfortune and misery.Do not just think you how hard it more difficult to know “everyone has a cupboard.”.More things to think about when sleepy sleepy, difficult when people think harder.To remember, beautiful soul decided, happiness decided attitude.  [Learn to forget the pain and misfortune] had a saying: “The people eat whole grains how can we not get sick, how can people not the knife in rivers and lakes.”Similarly, people on the bumpy road of life on the road to walk, how can we not wrestling.This means that any person’s life journey is not easy, it will encounter difficulties and setbacks, failures, and even a lot of pain and combat.Since everyone is so, why some people do this unbearable pain and unable to extricate themselves, some people are able to calm it up at the optimistic?So people suffering pain because they bear in mind the pain; happy people so happy, because they quickly forget the unfortunate.Happy is that people quickly forget unpleasant; sad that people bear in mind sorrow.Do not regret the past and has been living in the painful memories, we know that there are special circumstances in the past and past helpless.  [Has] a grateful heart into Japanese and some people think that other people (National Social, God of God) against my own, owe their own: relatives and friends do not help themselves, parents, brothers and sisters do not care about myself, my colleagues did not support his leadership national Social no patrons themselves, God did not bless God himself.Such people can be happy mind it?People only think about their own place to live for others (state, society), and to think of others (state, society) for their own good, so always with a grateful gratitude heart, only happiness.The only people complaining, only “complain to” pain and suffering.  [] Here has a love of love has two meanings, one refers to the situation of the people and things of love, the second refers to the general moral sense of love.Contribute to their favorite people is a pleasure, sweat for their favorite thing is a blessing.Happiness comes from love – love life, love of work, love of learning, love of family, love of community, love the motherland, love of humanity.Love is mutual, you love life, work.They will love you and give you joy and happiness.Others warm fire, but also the warmth of their own.Smile at someone, but also from the music; for people angry, but also from the air.  Have an understanding [heart] my heart that everyone in shouting Long live the understanding, are impatient for people to understand their own.So, do not just demanding others to understand themselves, but to put yourself in other people understand.Understand others, they appreciate you, respect you, you do not just heart sweetness yet?Increase friendship and understanding friend, to understand the “enemy” do not get angry.You can understand others, will make his heart is not in itself grievances and comfortable, happy.  [Be a lofty ideal and pursuit of the ideals and the pursuit of] people are striving for, is a powerful driving force of struggle, but also a source of human happiness.Because, with lofty ideals and goals, and you will struggle and hard work to achieve her, and she is working hard to achieve, learn, explore.Happiness is not only in the success, but mainly the process of the struggle for the realization of the ideal.So, with lofty ideals you are happy.If a person bent forward, run to the destination, he will not take into account the bumpy foot, empathy, a man with a heart as big dreams and struggles, he will not care about trivial little things of everyday life born of Xianqi.Every day, hope, joy and happiness will be there every day.  [Make people] a senior general interest of the people think, engage in scientific research, their work must be very boring, so think how happy they are not, it is not true.Once, someone asked Madame Curie: Do you engage in scientific research in the lab every day, it is not very boring.Marie Curie replied: on the contrary, he is very fond of doing things is a pleasure in itself.Many great scientists, is the scientific research work as a very interesting thing dry.The great physicist Newton once said: “I do not know the world of people have told me how to evaluate.I think so: I like playing in the sea, sometimes found a smooth Dan Zier, sometimes found a beautiful shell and would be glad of children.”What people love, what would be dedicated to.When you dedicate to the things you love the sight of them, you will not be bothered by the general trivia, it is what worries things will soon forget.Retired right people, working in the garden, fish and other aviculture is to have some fun and fulfilling their own interests.Dog gnawing on a bone idle, busy eating rabbit wood, were busy life sorrow.A lot of it to develop their own interests, it will make you very fulfilling.Very full, I will be very happy very happy.  [Do] people a true contentment “contentment” including women and children, few people can really meet?Only truly satisfied, to have real happiness.For undersea fishing tip is fool, wants to be the stars of heaven is crazy.Chengri crazy to think the impossible was obtained only tortured self, others ridicule.”There are” difficult to understand “no” difficult, “no” is difficult to know “with” trouble.Lost beneath the pain was something of sorrow.There are many pros and cons, its dirge only be known after the pros and cons.To cherish their own, to enjoy their own, to meet their own.Tam pick does not move back injury, brain injury not want.Do not ask too much of yourself, too demands on themselves, is their own torture yourself.Do not desire too much, the more the desire, the more disappointed.Do not be jealous, jealousy is a rice cooker, suffering with others of their own suffering.  [Doctors] do their own hearts Living life, no matter how dedicated you are, due to the constraints of objective conditions, there is always a painful thing; people in society, no matter how much you with people because it is good or bad character of the people, there is always the person you are angry.”The best psychiatrist is himself,” so we must learn to do their own psychiatrist.So that we can own Jiequan themselves, their own comfort, their own to save himself, and thus less angry, not angry but more joy and happiness.  [If] good relationships among family members cherish affection and understanding each other, dearly; if cherish the love between husband and wife and enjoy each other, loved each other; if we cherish personality and among members of the society of others with respect owe, agreeable.So, how much will our harmonious society is, how much of our lives will be better!If a person deal with these relationships, make yourself in such a social environment, not that you live in paradise?How can you not be happy, not happy yet?  Happy or not, depends on our own – his eyes, his heart, his actions..As long as we love life, fame and fortune, knowing full contentment, optimism.Have a good attitude, mental health, then happiness will be with us every day.I wish you all a happy and more happy, more happy happy!(Author: ZHANG)